Hey guys! I'm Dr. Sha-Lai aka Dr. S

Speaker, Author & Seriel Entrepreneur

Welcome to my corner of the world!  If you've been hanging out with me for awhile, you know 2021 was my self-proclaimed #butterfly year - a year of life-changing metamorphosis and transformation.  You've had a front row seat to my coming out party, and have watched me divorce people, places, and things that I'd previously allowed to hold me in bondage.  Well, no longer!!  I finally realized that I actually want to WALK in the liberty that I've been given in Christ.  How about you??!  Wanna join me?


I now see that my past and pain were necessary to position my purpose.  Those events have birthed a heartfelt desire and ministry to help others, especially women, break free from the unaddressed and unhealed traumatic experiences that are keeping them bound.  Whether it's fear, insecurities, feelings of rejection and abandonment, dealing with broken homes or relationships, or a host of other feelings and situations, I can relate and I want to share my journey with you.   

My vision is the creation of a divinely connected community of women who are actively pursuing and living in their God-given freedom, passion, and purpose.  My mission is to assist in dismantling the emotional, spiritual, and cultural barriers of trauma and tradition that often prevent women from pursuing and living in their complete liberty and freedom.  Thus, every event, service, and product connected with About FACE Collaborative LLC has one goal and that's to help you discover and #BeYourBestYou


As a licensed therapist with a clinical background that spans 25 years, I utilize my personal experience and professional expertise to serve you as a life strategist, transformational speaker, published author, entrepreneur, and passionate and enthusiastic teacher of many topics, including the Word of God.  Motivated and led by Ephesians 4:12, I provide relevant information, essential tools, and tangible strategies that will help you determine and attain your personal freedom, passion, and purpose.


Are you finally sick and tired of being bound?  Ready to become unstuckExcited to walk in true freedom and liberty?

Then join me on this journey of self-discovery to healing, freedom, and greatness.  


Be blessed, Dr. S

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visit aboutfacecollaborative.com from your desktop)

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Speaker & Conference Host


Whether an invited guest speaker at women's conferences such as Jewel Warrior or Like a Rose, or hosting one of the many God-inspired events that the Lord lays on my heart, I am always willing to be a yielded vessel.


You can join me for Word of Mouth with Dr. S, an interactive video conversation exploring various topics impacting today's Christian and the modern-day church.  Whether it's pressing and often taboo or ignored topics in today's church, or a mini-therapeutic session, or a Bible study, you don't want to miss it. You can watch #replays on my YouTube Channel.  

Or Roar like a Lioness, an annual Women's Conference, that addresses relevant topics affecting women

on a daily basis. I promise you that you will get your roar back after attending!

                                 House of Esther is a one-night, intimate therapeutic event for a small group of ladies

                                 who need to discuss real issues, in real time, with real people.

                                 Most recently, I created Girls Talk: Life Unfiltered, a conference for young ladies ages

                                 12-mid 20s, where they learned about topics ranging from social media and bullying, to

                                 mental health and stress, to feminine health and dating.

                                 Be sure to subscribe to the email list to stay in the know about upcoming events.

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With a 52-week and two 28-day options, ARISE Devotional Journal is a unique and interactive devotional and journal combination that incorporates the word of God, thought-provoking questions, and space to write all that the Lord reveals to you during your quiet time with Him.  It can be used for both personal and/or group bible study as a means to encourage, educate, and benefit the saints of God.


ALERT: I have a new project coming out soon. Be sure to subscribe to my email list so you can know the lastest information!


Seriel Entrepreneur


Just like our Father God is the Ultimate Creator, I believe being a creative person with God-ideas is in my DNA!


                                One of those ideas is CShirts_Apparel, a Christian t-shirt (and hoodie) line for individuals

                                who want to engage others in meaningful conversations about Jesus Christ through

                                spirit*fed*fashion.  CShirts_Apparel offers catchy designs for women, men, and kids that

                                can be everyday conversation starters wherever you go.

                                Another recent venture is 4E Consulting, where as your Life Strategist, I want to help you birth out your God-given                                                        purpose. Utilizing the 4E method, I provide relevant information, essential tools and tangible strategies to help you achieve                                            your personal freedom, passion, and purpose(s). Email me today to start your journey!


Upcoming Events

  • Worship U ~ You Worship University
    Sat, Dec 17
    Join us for our third virtual worship workshop. This FREE event will help you explore and practice worshipping in new and creative ways!! Although this event is free, registration is required by Dec. 13.
  • Love Letters to Our Sons book signing
    Sat, Jan 21
    Pillar of Fire Church
    Bring your son(s), nephews, god-sons, and more for the book signing of Love Letters to Our Sons! Be sure to place your pre-order by Dec. 16 to ensure delivery.